These days, a lot of women are very much eager to walk
out of their marriage, most of them are still in their marriage now because of
the children, some have already given up on the marriage waiting for the right
time to spark, some are just tolerating the man hoping for a change, some are
still in the marriage because of families, in laws, friends, colleagues and
church members influence and encouragement, while some are already filling for
divorce.
The Problems most times why marriage fails are always
from the men. When a man is married to a beautiful lady, he tends to control
and rule over her life, and then forget that, it does not take a whole lot to
keep a woman, especially when you are blessed with a beautiful wife.
Every woman wants to be loved by her man, Even if she
doesn’t love you that much but hence you have proven to her that you love her
so much and You can do anything to always make her happy, I bet you she will
never leave you. Even if she cheats on you with another man, her conscience
will continue to deal with her knowing that she has a good man in her life who
truly loves her.
Men don’t know that the secret to a woman’s heart is
nothing but love and care, because the true life and nature of a woman is
hidden in her love life. So many men most times thinks that loving your wife
so much and taking good special care of her, is being foolish. There are
difference between loving your wife and being a fool. A man becomes a fool when
he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife
always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy
always.
You seat down in front of the TV with your phone and
watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out and just before she sleeps,
you still want sex. Seriously, are you kidding me? Don’t you see you are
wicked?
As a man, once in awhile, who told you that it is
wrong to wash dishes? Who told you it is wrong to bath the kids and dress them
for school when they are up to? Who told you that it is wrong to dress a bed?
Who told you it is wrong to prepare breakfast or dinner? Once in a while, And
there’s this twisted view of marriage that has led to an increase in domestic
violence where they’ll see a man cooking and they be like “Guy, you need to get
married so you can stop cooking”. Let me tell you, don’t marry a woman to clean
or cook for you but marry to assist, love, cherish and enjoy each other.
If you are getting married because you feel you need
someone to cook and do all house work for you, then get a housemaid.
