Does your partner have trust issues in the relationship? If you’re having a hard time convincing your lover/spouse that you’re faithful and have no intentions of cheating on them, here are six ways to help that special someone in your life overcome their trust issues.
1. Open up to your lover. Your partner may feel insecure in the relationship if they believe you don’t communicate well with them. If your lover asks you about something, don’t give abrupt answers or one-liners. Instead, communicate and have a conversation.
2. Talk about your daily lives. Talk about your day, the little things you did and the people you interacted with. When your partner feels like they know what you’ve been up to when they weren’t around, it’ll help them feel more secure in love.
3. Introduce your friends. Introduce your lover to your friends, especially the ones your partner feels threatened about. Let your lover/spouse bond with them so they feel like a part of your circle of friends. As long as your partner feels involved in your group of friends, they’ll feel less threatened by the attractive and touchy feely ones.
4. Show them you care. Shower your lover with compliments and reassuring words. Remind them just how much you love them and need them. Sometimes, your partner may feel insecure when they don’t hear those loving words often.
5. Talk about your secrets. Revealing a few secrets can instantly bring two people close. It happens all the time, between friends and definitely between lovers too. When your lover feels like they know more secrets about you than anyone else, they’d feel more special and reassured.
6. Don’t be aloof. Don’t get angry or annoyed when your lover unnecessarily craves for your attention. Your lover is frightened you’ll leave them. Think from their perspective, and if you truly care about keeping your lover happy, help them through this difficult period.
Building trust back takes a lot longer than the time it took to lose the trust...so try and guide your stand/integrity in your relationship by avoiding lies or suspicious lifestyle for trust is the only ingredient that helps love to grow with ease.
