- WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
Some women (ladies, girls, etc.) do love to be complimented
and appreciated by their partners through words. To an extent, love to this set
of ladies means affirmation, that is proving to them that u love them by words.
At times, these set of women tend to love "love and romantic text
messages" a lot. They want to be sure their partners
really love them so
when you do something different, it makes them feel you don`t love them but the
fact is that you don`t understand how they define their love. They appreciate
it when you look straight into their eyes and say "I love you, believe me
I really do". They also appreciate it if u apologize with deep sincerity
for instance, "am sorry about what happened believe me it won`t repeat
itself". But to an extent they have to be watchful and careful to know
when it is suitable to demand for words of compliments and affirmation because
at times when their partners are moody it may not really go well at all. - ACTS OF SERVICE
These set of women are actually the action freaks. They tend
to tell you; "if you love me, you`ve got to prove it". To them action
speaks louder than words. If u really love them, you have to really do
something to show it, not necessarily through giving but by other means like
"helping them when they need help, assisting in house chores, fixing
things for them, sweeping the floor or dressing/arranging the bed, etc. By so
doing, you`re proving your love to them. Remember if you do anything different,
she would not feel loved because you do n0t seem to understand her love language.
However this does not mean women should take advantage of their love language by
"using their partners" because it may bring serious issues in their
relationships.
- RECEIVING GIFTS
At times people tend to take this set of women as "gold
diggers" but not all are actually "gold diggers". These set of
women just love it when you get them gifts. They love surprises. If you really
love them, then you got to be ready to be giving them gift packages from time
to time, not only on their birthdays but you just have to give without a
specific date at least for the sake of love. After all you can`t love without
giving. That`s why some men who are trying to woo a lady and tend to shower
them with gifts and this makes them feel loved. But women of this category
ought not to be over-demanding as that may scare their men away and make them
think you`re using them. Why? So that you won`t look cheap. And they need to
understand that people can give without loving but can`t love without
giving".
- QUALITY TIME
Yeah women need quality time but to an extent some set of
women mostly value the time you spend with them. Not necessarily talking but
just be there. All they need is your presence. For those in a long distance
relationship-you have to make sure you keep in touch long enough to prove to
your women that you truly love them. For instance when chatting, some of them
just need u to be online and they are fine. Some love to take a long walk with
their partners alone, some love to go see a movie and some just love it if
you`re with them; just the two of you for some hours. In other words, your
presence gives and boosts their morale. However women of this category ought to
understand that there is time for everything. Your man can`t be there all the
time, even if you`re married won`t he go to work? Won`t he spend sometimes with
his friends? Won`t he do some sports or even do some browsing and reading?. So
they should not take advantage of the whole stuff!
- PHYSICAL TOUCH
Sounds odd but it is one of the love languages women
possess. Some tend to love it when you hold them, hug them and just stay close.
To an extent they desire sexual satisfaction but this is only permitted in
marriage therefore this set of women ought to exercise self control. But you
have to do the hugging, holding and the cuddling thing else you`re on your own!
Written by: Emaediong Obot
Written by: Emaediong Obot
